NOBA Nordic Baltic contemporary art platform

Past, present, future (self-portrait with children, 2025

300 x 202 cm

Cotton/linen bed sheet from wedding trousseau of the artist’s grandmother, artist’s hair


The artwork The Past, Present, Future (Self-Portrait with Children) explores the

legacy passed from woman to woman—from grandmother to mother to

daughter.


Nelly Toussaint collected her grandmother’s wedding trousseau: a bedsheet embroidered by her grandmother before her marriage. Through this act, her grandmother projected her hopes, beliefs, and expectations about her future role as a wife and mother.


Sixty years later, Toussaint embroiders the same sheet, using her own hair, with the phrase:

“profoundly, intensively alone.”


In this piece, Toussaint overlays, contrasts, and confronts her grandmother’s feelings with her own.


It is also a reflection on intergenerational connection between women.

What do we inherit?

What do we do with that inheritance?

How do we use it?

Do we make it our own—or not?

And what do we pass on?


The work sheds light on the mental health challenges that women face—

depression, burnout, and emotional strain tied to the societal roles imposed on them.


More art by this artist

Printmaking

Free Mary by Nelly Toussaint
Free Mary  
30 x 21 cm
€2500

Drawing

Self-portrait with children by Nelly Toussaint
Self-portrait with children  
192 x 120 cm